When we are referring to the subject of "picking up women." I often get asked what to do in order to "pick up women", or just "how to pick up women".
I recently got asked the question: "Why do females flirt with you and when you flirt back they push it away? It's so confusing!!!" I thought it was wonderful and important enough to share.
First of all, women have different personalities. What is being described here is a type of personality, not all women in general. The personality type that typically does this kind of behavior is a little insecure. They are testing the water, but they don't just want to jump in.
The best way to handle this personality type is when you see it is not to react, not to take the bait so to speak. Let the girl flirt all she wants, let her take the lead. Let her manage how the relationship goes. If you don't react, she will get comfortable with you and steepen the gradient progressively. If you react (flirt back) she will usually run away.
Problem is, however, people with similar or compatible personalities tend to hang out together. So sometimes you can get the feeling that the whole world is one way, when in fact it may be only a certain percentage of humans who are like that. So if you tend to think ALL women are one way, change your environment. Go somewhere different, meet different people in different situations and perhaps you will discover different personality types and perhaps one that is more suitable for you.
Now having said that, let's look at it from a different angle. Women in general love flirting for flirting's sake more than men do. Men will flirt because they are interested in a woman. Women will flirt to see if they get a reaction, to see if they are looking good and are desirable, even when they are not serious about a man. They will flirt with a guy they are only interested in being friends with.
One solution to get better control of these situations is to look at all the communication channels that a woman is using to communicate - Like verbal, emotional, physical, mental, and sexual communications.
When a woman likes you she is likely to communicate that she likes you through all of the communications channels. When she is just playing around she will give you conflicting communications. So when you see a woman flirting with you, but she does not back up the flirting by showing you she likes you across ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation seriously.
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