Let's talk about the topic of attracting women. I often get questions about how to attract women, or the direction to go to attract women.
One common concern that men have is how to avoid making those critical mistakes on the first date that prevents ever having a second date or developing a sexual relationship (instead of a friendship). I am going to discuss a few of them in this article.
Well, there are several mistakes a guy can make. I want to summarize the most typical ones here. The most significant mistakes guys make on first dates are:
1) Speaking about themselves excessively. Trying to be interesting rather than interested.
2) Not asking questions and not listening enough.
3) Focusing too much on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.
4) Not using subtleties enough (What a woman understands)
5) Not creating sexual flow or interest.
6) Not creating future. (A relationship is all about future.)
The first mistake that most guys make is that they start the first date and talk everything regarding themselves, kind of strut around telling the girl that he's got this car, and he's got this job and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that trying to impress the girl that he is an excellent catch.
What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that isn't going to be able to take care of her at all, because he isn't serious about her and does not listen to what she has to say. Not a good relationship prospect.
Another way of saying it is that guys try to be interesting. They figure they have to be interesting for a girl to be interested in them. Sorry guys, but it does not work exactly that way. You should be keen on the girl, not interesting to get her attention. Did you ever see two interesting people on a date. It is hilarious! They are both so busy trying to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be interested in the other.
If you do not know what We are speaking about, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is interested in you? Or a girl who is telling you how cool she is, how hot she is, etc, and all kinds of other interesting things.
Interesting leads to a lot of rejections and "platonic" friendships incidentally. Girls can be friends with a guy who is interesting. Why? Girls like to be amused and entertained. Interesting men are sort of like children to them. A source of non-sexual amusement and pleasure.
That is all we have room to talk about here, but you may get more data on the other five errors at Dating To Relating.
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