Are You Scared To Talk Or Meet Up With Ladies?

There is a simple thing that men can do to boost their confront on approaching women and meeting women.

Whenever you feel uncomfortable in any scenario, it means that you are approaching this situation on too high a gradient. Instead of runing away from the scenario, lower the gradient.

How do you define gradients? Gradients are just like steps on a ladder. If you try to skip to the top of the ladder on your first step, it's going to be impossible to accomplish, and you may fail. If you continue trying it again and again you will start building up a complex regarding failing, and soon not try any longer.

If you try to skip up five or six steps on your initial try, it will also be scary -- certainly not impossible but scary. And the possibility is that if you have no experience jumping that high you will not be successful .

The right tactic is to take the first step and then advance one-step each time. It is the most comfortable way to climb a step ladder.

When I was a young guy I would see a girl I was drawn to and thought I had to express to her how much I liked her straight away. Well that was leaping up too many steps on the ladder. I knew nothing about her.

The first step is a straightforward "Hi" and a smile. Then keep walking. Get comfortable simply saying "Hi" to girls. Then as the next step when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, reply to the question, or make a comment about something which she has her attention on to continue the conversation. For instance, if you are in a bookstore and she is looking at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it worthwhile?

Conversations develop naturally. Do not push it. Get to know her prior to deciding that you like her.

Of course, there is a whole lot more to it, however these are good basics to begin with. If you use gradients eventually you will know how to meet women.

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